Coach or Therapist? Why the Question Matters More Than You Think
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

Coach or Therapist? Why the Question Matters More Than You Think

Most people assume a coach and a therapist do the same job, just with different branding. They don't. One helps you build a future; the other helps you understand a past that's still shaping your present. Here's the real difference, and why it matters more than you'd think.

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Why the Heat Hits Harder Than You Think
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

Why the Heat Hits Harder Than You Think

It's not just your body that struggles in a heatwave, your mind does too. From disrupted sleep to heightened anxiety, hot weather has a real effect on mental health. Here's what's actually going on, and when it's worth reaching out for support.

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What is the 3 Month Rule in Mental Health?
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

What is the 3 Month Rule in Mental Health?

Mental health progress rarely follows a neat schedule. The 3-month rule is a practical framework that helps you spot real patterns, set realistic expectations, and know when it's time to seek more support.

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Free and low-cost therapy in the UK: your options and how to self-refer
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

Free and low-cost therapy in the UK: your options and how to self-refer

This guide outlines free and low-cost therapy options in the UK, from NHS Talking Therapies and GP support to charities, community services, and workplace schemes. It explains how self-referral works, what to expect at assessment, who is entitled to free care, and how to combine NHS and private therapy. You will also find tips if you cannot afford counselling right now.

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Online Therapy vs In-Person: Which is Right for You?
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

Online Therapy vs In-Person: Which is Right for You?

When I first started my training, therapy meant one thing: two people, two chairs, one room. That was it. The idea of sitting with a client through a screen felt, to many in the profession, like a compromise.

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When Mother's Day Feels Complicated
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

When Mother's Day Feels Complicated

Mother's Day arrives with its usual barrage of cheerful adverts, perfectly curated social media posts, and restaurant bookings. For many people, it's a day of genuine celebration and connection. But for others, it brings up feelings that are far more complex.

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My Mental Health 'Ins and Outs' for 2026
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

My Mental Health 'Ins and Outs' for 2026

January has arrived, and my social feeds are absolutely flooded with everyone’s “Ins and Outs” lists for 2026. You know the ones: “In: matcha and morning routines, Out: tequila and 3am voice notes.” I’ve been reading them all week, so I thought… why should therapists miss out on the fun?

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The Things We Don't Say Out Loud
Emma Pateman-Jones Emma Pateman-Jones

The Things We Don't Say Out Loud

There's a particular moment that happens in therapy, usually a few sessions in, when someone finally says something they've never said before. Not to a partner, not to a best friend, not even fully to themselves. The room gets quieter. Their voice drops. And they say, "I've never told anyone this, but..."

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