High Functioning Anxiety: When You Look Fine But Feel Anything But
High functioning anxiety doesn't look like falling apart. It looks like always delivering, never stopping, and quietly running on empty.
"I'm Not Giving Up Yet" - RAYE's Life Boat and the Kind of Hope Nobody Talks About
RAYE's new single Life Boat has been living in my head, and I think I know why. This is about the kind of hope nobody talks about, and why "not yet" might be the most powerful thing you can say.
What Does Depression Actually Feel Like? A Therapist's Guide
Depression doesn't always look the way we expect. I explain what depression really feels like, and how therapy can help.
What is the 3 Month Rule in Mental Health?
Mental health progress rarely follows a neat schedule. The 3-month rule is a practical framework that helps you spot real patterns, set realistic expectations, and know when it's time to seek more support.
Free and low-cost therapy in the UK: your options and how to self-refer
This guide outlines free and low-cost therapy options in the UK, from NHS Talking Therapies and GP support to charities, community services, and workplace schemes. It explains how self-referral works, what to expect at assessment, who is entitled to free care, and how to combine NHS and private therapy. You will also find tips if you cannot afford counselling right now.
Online Therapy vs In-Person: Which is Right for You?
When I first started my training, therapy meant one thing: two people, two chairs, one room. That was it. The idea of sitting with a client through a screen felt, to many in the profession, like a compromise.
Understanding Anxiety: Causes and Coping Strategies
Anxiety is a common yet complex mental health condition. It affects millions of people worldwide, often in different ways.
When Mother's Day Feels Complicated
Mother's Day arrives with its usual barrage of cheerful adverts, perfectly curated social media posts, and restaurant bookings. For many people, it's a day of genuine celebration and connection. But for others, it brings up feelings that are far more complex.
5 Signs It Might Be Time to Try Counselling
Deciding to start therapy isn't always straightforward. There's no dramatic moment, no clear line between "I'm fine" and "I need help.
International Women’s Day 2026: Embracing “Give To Gain” How Prioritising Your Mental Health Helps Women Thrive
On International Women’s Day 8th March 2026, the global theme is “Give To Gain”. When we give time, energy, support, and kindness, we gain so much in return.
The Proven Benefits of Mindfulness and Meditation: How These Practices Can Support Your Mental Wellbeing
In our fast-paced world, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, or racing thoughts.
“Enough whining. I'm still here, so f*** Parkinson's”
When Michael J. Fox appeared in the Season 3 premiere of Shrinking on Apple TV+ in late January 2026, I felt a quiet rush of emotion.
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How to Build Emotional Resilience in an Uncertain World: Practical Strategies for 2026
As of February 2026, life in the UK continues to feel uncertain for many.
My Mental Health 'Ins and Outs' for 2026
January has arrived, and my social feeds are absolutely flooded with everyone’s “Ins and Outs” lists for 2026. You know the ones: “In: matcha and morning routines, Out: tequila and 3am voice notes.” I’ve been reading them all week, so I thought… why should therapists miss out on the fun?
The Things We Don't Say Out Loud
There's a particular moment that happens in therapy, usually a few sessions in, when someone finally says something they've never said before. Not to a partner, not to a best friend, not even fully to themselves. The room gets quieter. Their voice drops. And they say, "I've never told anyone this, but..."
The Sunday Scaries: Why Your Weekend Anxiety Isn't Just About Monday
It starts around 4pm on Sunday. That familiar heaviness in your chest. The creeping dread as daylight fades. You're on the sofa, supposedly relaxing, but your mind is already at tomorrow's meeting. The Sunday Scaries have arrived, right on schedule.
Understanding the Anxiety Spiral: When Your Mind Won't Stop Replaying
When a relationship ends, especially unexpectedly, our minds can get stuck in an exhausting loop of 'what-ifs' and 'if-onlys.'
How to Prepare Your Mental Health for Winter: A Therapist's Guide
The clocks have gone back, and suddenly it's dark by 4pm. If you're feeling the shift in your mood, energy, or motivation, you're not imagining it. Winter doesn't just change the weather, it genuinely affects our mental health.
Parenting Burnout: Why Mums and Dads Need Support Too
You love your children, of course you do. But love doesn’t cancel out exhaustion, overwhelm, or those quiet moments when you wonder if you’re failing at the one thing that’s supposed to come naturally.
Managing Commuter Anxiety: A Guide for Professionals
If you're reading this on a packed train, feeling your chest tighten as you approach another day at the office, you're not alone. Commuter anxiety affects thousands of UK professionals who make the daily journey to work, and it's far more than just "not being a morning person."